November 11th, 2009
Love??

JANUARY – ROSE

FEBRUARY – PROPOSE

MARCH – GIFT

APRIL – LIFT

MAY – CHATTING

JUNE – DATING

JULY – MISS YOU

AUGUST – KISS YOU

SEPTEMBER – ANGER

OCTOBER – DANGER

NOVEMBER – LEFT

DECEMBER – NEXT


 
 
November 11th, 2009

Ideas for surprise wedding proposals

Want to surprise your girlfriend or boyfriend with a marriage proposal? Here are some ideas that may inspire you

When two people have been together for quite some time, questions about marriage and proposals start popping up from every corner. Parents and friends have begun to badger you about when you are planning on proposing. Maybe your partner has even started asking if the relationship will be taken to the next level anytime soon. Sure, you can grab your partner and start looking at rings together which would unofficially mark your engagement, but what fun is that? If you want to surprise your partner with a wedding proposal they will talk about for years to come, here are some ideas that might inspire you.

If you suddenly take your honey out for a weekend getaway to an exotic location, she may figure out that something marital is amiss. This is why you want to aim for total and complete unexpectedness. Maybe you order out pizza and watch movies on Friday nights. Offer to pick up the movies alone. Get some wedding-inspired movies that she loves like “Steel Magnolias” or “Betsy’s Wedding.” Hide the ring box in the pizza box. When you get home, pop the first movie in and set the pizza down in front of you. When she sees which movie you have picked, she will be wondering why you picked it. For a slightly comedic touch, get down on your knee and open the pizza box as if it were the ring box.

Maybe you and your girlfriend love to see new movie releases. Speak to the theater manager beforehand and find out how much it would be to rent one of the slides from the slide show that usually comes on before the feature presentation. Seeing what the reason is for, they may even let you do it for free. With the help of the theater staff, come up with a design for the slide that will get the point across. Maybe you can have the slide read, “Sarah, will you marry me?” If you want to get a little more creative, have the sign read something like, “Sarah Goodman, report to the concession stand immediately.” You can be by the concession stand ready to propose.

One romantic way to propose to your girlfriend is to send her on a scavenger hunt. Naturally, she might sense something is going on if you send her on a random scavenger hunt in the middle of the year, so try to schedule it on an important holiday like Valentine’s Day, your anniversary day or her birthday. This way, she will think the scavenger hunt has nothing to do with a possible proposal. The final clue will send her to you (pick a romantic destination like the site of your first date, a favorite restaurant or a special spot in a park) where you will be waiting ready to propose.

 
 
November 11th, 2009
Ten surprises your lady will adore

Here are ten romantic surprises to give the lady in your life. She is sure to treasure these meaningful gifts.

Whether your budget is small or even practically non-existent, you can give the special lady in your life romantic and meaningful gifts that she will always treasure and remember. Some will cost very little, and some are completely free. Here are ten gifts that most women will always enjoy receiving.

The first thing that is important to remember is that it doesn’t need to be Valentine’s Day or her birthday to give a gift and let her know that you care. Any day of the year can be turned into a day to give a loving gift.

1. One gift that will not have a price tag attached, but will be highly appreciated is the gift of time. Give her an entire day of your time and ask what she would like to do with that time. It may be hiking or going to the beach, but you may find out that the way she would best enjoy spending that gift of time is to just spend the day together at home getting to know you better.

2. When planning that surprise for her, do not overlook the old “romantic standbys” of candy and flowers, but instead of waiting for an anniversary or birthday, just do it because you think she’s special (and tell her that!) If the budget will not allow roses, any florist will have other kinds of arrangements that will cost much less, so you may want to look into other options instead of the more traditional “dozen roses.”

3. Is she fun-loving? If your lady enjoys games and laughs, try setting up a treasure hunt for her. Give her the first clue that you have written on a slip of paper, and have her follow the clues you creatively give to get to the next clue, until she eventually finds her gift. Don’t have the clues going on for too very long, however, because even the most fun kinds of games can get tiring if they drag on for too long.

4. If children are involved in your relationship, one of the nicest gifts to give her is some private time while you take over watching the kids. This one may not sound like a romantic gift at first, but you can make sure to plan it so that it turns out that way. For instance, what if her private time involves an hour of soaking in a bubble bath that you have drawn for her at just the right temperature? Add a few scented candles to the room. Add a boom box (battery operated, please, because of the hazard risk of electricity and water) playing her favorite, or perhaps a brand new CD, or a new book of poetry if she enjoys reading. You might even choose to go as far as sprinkling some rose petals into the water. It goes without saying to make sure the children use the bathroom (if there is only one) before her bubble soak starts so that she will not be disturbed.

5. Many men, unfortunately, will refuse to do something that a lot of women think is very romantic, and that is writing a love poem for her. It doesn’t need to be William Shakespeare and it doesn’t even need to rhyme for it to be something that she will always treasure. Just write down thoughts from your heart concerning how you feel about her and try to fit them into poetry form and you have a priceless gift for her. Use nice stationary and present the poem or written thoughts to her with a little teddy bear holding the paper.

6. Another idea for a day of pampering is to plan for her to spend some time at a spa or beauty salon where she may not generally feel comfortable about spending the money to visit. Make sure she gets as much of “the works” as you can afford, including things like a manicure if she would enjoy it.

7. Choose a Saturday or Sunday and spoil your lady for the day. Arrange so that she will not need to worry about chores like cooking or cleaning. If the budget allows, call out for food or have a maid service come in for just this one time. If food delivery or a maid service for the day is too extravagant for the wallet, consider cooking a meal for her yourself or even dusting and running the vacuum. If this surprise is one you choose, don’t forget to add the dish washing to the gift!

8. Tell her how you feel about her. That means true feelings. If she has made a huge difference in your life in some particular way, tell her that. If she is the first thought on your mind in the morning and the last thought before you drift off to sleep at night, she would absolutely love to hear that. It is important to say those three little words of “I love you” often, but sometimes it’s nice to explain some of the reasons why you love her.

9. Rent a few movies that you know she would like and don’t forget the popcorn and soda for your “theater evening.” The thing that would make this a true gift for her is to let her choose the movies. Take the time to watch them with her, even if you would normally consider them “chick flicks.” Let her get emotional and share that with you.

10. Last but certainly not least, and if the budget allows, arrange a weekend getaway for the two of you. Make all the plans, secure the reservations, and be sure to keep the destination a secret. Whether it’s a short plane flight to your location, or a short or longer drive, she will find out the mystery destination when you arrive. Be practical, however, in letting her know if she will need any particular items of clothing for possible weather changes so that she will be able to pack properly. Even a trip to the mountains in the summertime might be a reason to tell her to throw a sweater in her suitcase. Know ahead of time which restaurants are in the area and choose your dining spots. She will have nothing to do except to enjoy the mystery weekend.

Remember that often the best gifts that mean the most are those that do not involve superficial things, or the spending of any money at all. Try to think of some meaningful “time” gifts to give her and your surprise will most likely be a huge hit.

 
Six ideas for romantic gift baskets for the guy in your life.

Want to give the guy you love a present he’ll really remember? Give him a gift basket with a romantic theme. Try one of these great ideas for a present sure to please him.

1.
Weekend Getaway

Whatever your guy’s interest, plan a romantic weekend to explore it together. Start your basket with tickets to one of his favorite sporting events, a fan convention or another fun function. Fill out the basket with gear to enhance the getaway. For example, if you plan to take him to the car races, outfit him with binoculars, earplugs and a padded stadium seat. Throw in an autobiography of a leading driver and your basket is good to go. If possible book into an inn or motel with an appropriate theme for total immersion. His appreciation for a weekend custom-tailored to his desires will spark maximum romance once the sun goes down.

2.
A loaf of bread, a bottle of wine and thou basket

Give your lover all of the makings of a romantic picnic that can be enjoyed indoors or out. A bottle of good wine anchors the basket and accompanies a loaf of crusty French bread and some exotic but mild cheese. Don’t forget to include your invitation to share the picnic in the moonlight or candlelight.

3.
Aphrodisiac food lover basket

What could be more romantic for a gourmet than a basket filled with aphrodisiac delicacies? Choose foods shown to enhance feelings of love and romance and then sit back and enjoy your man’s responses. Some aphrodisiac foods to consider including are oysters, truffles or truffle oil, the spice ginseng and caviar. If these are too exotic for your honey’s tastes, fall back on the traditional foods of love: chocolate, bananas and champagne.

4.
Music feeds the soul basket

For a musical basket sure to spark romance, put together a collection of favorite CDs. Make a mix CD that alternates your favorites with his or fill the collection with classic love ballads. Going all out? Make an MP3 player the center of your gift and surround it with accessories and gift certificates for song downloads.

5.
Movie lover’s basket

Plan a romantic night in with a basket sure to please the movie lover in your life. Tuck several of his favorite DVDs in with some popcorn and classic snacks. Add a plush lap blanket for snuggle appeal. Even his favorite action movie or zombie thriller can be romantic when the two of you are cuddled under a throw with the lights dimmed.

6.
The Key to your Heart basket

Ready to offer your love the key to your place as well as your heart? Don’t just hand him a hardware store key ring – design a gift basket to let him know how special he is to you. Place the key on an attractive key ring. Add some basics he’ll need for sleepovers at your place; things like a toothbrush, his preferred bar soap and a comfortable robe so he doesn’t have to lounge around in your pink shorty robe are all considerate gifts. Throw in some of his chosen beer brand and chips for his snacking comfort and you will clinch the deal.

 
 
November 11th, 2009

5 ways to know if it’s true love

Wondering if you’ve just met the perfect match? Here are some guidelines to help you decide if it’s true love.

After several dates, you feel you’ve found the perfect person. This is your dream mate, the one who will stand by you through thick and thin. You’re ready to tie the knot at last.

But is it love? Or is it a cheap imitation, like infatuation, lust, or even simple companionship? Here are a few things to consider as you make the ultimate life-changing decision:

1. Do you enjoy looking at the person or talking to the person more? Both are important to a mature relationship, but if you find yourself fixated on physical appearance, attracted to your mate because of face, figure, or form, you may be taking a superficial look at your loved one. On the other hand, you don’t want to be taken in by flattery or false statements. If your significant other is all talk and no action, that can be a warning sign to drop the relationship before you end up with one broken promise after another. A balance of physical and mental attraction is a healthy signal.

2. Are you willing to wait to make the relationship work? For example, if your mate pushes you to do things you don’t feel comfortable with, can you firmly say no? Will your response be handled respectfully and with patience? It goes both ways, too. Are you willing to wait on your partner to get more serious when he or she is ready, or are you demanding more interaction now? Can you wait to marry until the other person finishes school or are you pushing to live together first? Patience is an important virtue associated with successful, long-term relationships.

3. Do you support each other by anticipating and meeting needs? For example, if you need to work extra right now to pay off debt before getting married, does your mate understand that the situation is temporary and willingly wait for you to put in the extra hours at your job, rather than complain about your absence? If the person has a list of errands to run before the two of you can get together, do you offer to help?

4. Are you friends? Companionship lasts much longer than ardor, generally speaking. People in their 70′s, 80′s, and 90′s may lose some of their physical spontaneity, but they maintain a quest for fun and a shared life until the end. Do you laugh together? Enjoy similar activities? Share each other with friends and family? Or do you expect your perfect mate to spend all free time with you exclusively?

5. Do you want what’s best for this person, or do you want what this person can do to help you? For example, if your mate has the chance to get a wonderful job in another city, are you willing to pull up stakes and move, or will you expect the job opportunity to get tossed aside for you? Love means putting the other person’s needs ahead of your own, even when that involves sacrifice. While blind agreement to any difference of opinion is unrealistic and unreasonable, a thoughtful discussion of what is better for each of you individually as well as both of you as a couple needs to take place.

Loving another person involves self-sacrifice and compromise. If you are attracted to someone for whom you are unwilling to be patient and to share all parts of your life, you may have a lot of work to do or disappointment to deal with after the wedding. Take time now to assess your relationship with these and other factors to see if you can make a life that could last fifty years or more with the person of your dreams. Because when you wake up, your mate will still be there.

 
 
November 11th, 2009
ROMANCE MATHEMATICS

Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

OFFICE ARITHMETIC

Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

SHOPPING MATH

A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn’t need.

GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand
her at all.

LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more
willing to die.

PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn’t.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won’t change, and she does.

DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE

A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

 
 
November 11th, 2009

A • R • I • E • S: The Sexiest
Body: Once you have opened this bulletin, there’s no turning back. Below are true descriptions of zodiac signs, with traits from a book written 35 years ago by an astrologist predictions. Read your sign,

S • C • O • R • P • I • O: The Freak in Bed
Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique sexiness. Most caring person you will ever meet! AMAZING IN BED..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna **** with…u might end up crying… The most irresistible. Rare 2 find. Funny. Talkative. Erotic. Smart. Loves sports. Gets what he/she wants. Loves to be in a relationship.

V • I • R • G • O: The Lover
Dominant in relationships. Sexy. someone loves them right now. Freak in bed. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Intellectual. Attractive. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Hard to forget. Love at first sight. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only. Ultimate sexiness.Great kisser.

L • I • B • R • A • : The *****
Can be mean sometimes, and will Probably knock your ass out, if crossed the wrong way!! EXTREMELY sexy. Intelligent. Energetic. Predict future. Most erotic. (Freak in bed.) (GREAT kisser.) Always get what they want. Sexy. Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. The sexiest ever….Romantic. Caring.

A • R • I • E • S: The Sexiest
Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to **** with. Erotic. Funny. Take you on trips to the moon in bed. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY sexy. Loves being in long relationships.=) Addictive. Loud. best in bed.

A • Q • U • A • R • I • U • S: the strongest
Trustworthy. Sexy. professional kissers. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Extremely energetic and funny. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Loves music. Not a Fighter, But will Knock the **** out of u. The best and biggest freak in bed! Strong. Considered to be a “Spartan.” The most intelligent. falls in love too easily. Doesn’t show it but is easy to hurt.

G • E • M • I • N • I: passionate
Nice. Love is one of a kind. Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you the **** out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING.Horny. Freak in Bed. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. ULTRA SEXY. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. .

L • E • O: wild in bed
Great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at a lot. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Loyal.Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Great when found. 7

C • A • N • C • E • R: Most Amazing Kisser
Very high sex appeal. Great in bed!!! Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak in bed. Spontaneous. Great telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

P • I • S • C • E • S: The Piece of ass
Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. Too Sexy, DAMN IT. Very high SEX appeal. Has the last word. The best to find, hardest to keep. Fun to be around. Freak in the sheets. Extremely weird but in a good way. Super good in bed. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. A partner for life. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5

C • A • P • R • I • C • O • R • N: THE BEST IN BED
Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always
Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future. Irresistible, awesome kisser.gets what he or she wants. BY FAR the BEST in BED. Very sexy. Coolest. Loves to own Gemini’s in sports.Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Loves to be your first. So you’ll never forget. Smart.

T • A • U • R • U • S: The sex addict
Aggressive. Freak in bed. Rare to find! Loves being in long relationships Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Sexy as …u no!….. Loves to help people in times of need. Outstanding kisser. Very funny. Awesome personality. Stubborn. Sexual as ……… Most caring person you will ever meet! One of a kind. Not one to **** with. Are the most sexiest people on earth!

S • A • G • I • T • T • A • R • I • U • S. The Sexy one
Spontaneous. Horny. Freak in Bed. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. The one. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone They meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Most caring person you will ever meet! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with you might end up crying.

 
..::.. 10 Wayz to say ” i luv u ” ..::..

Love can make your heart beat faster and make life more beautiful. If you are having butterflies in your stomach about going up to the person you love and saying ‘I Love You‘ for the first time, read on. Here are ten great ways to say ‘I Love You’ and make sure that he or she will remember it for a lifetime. Read on to win the heart you love!

Why Say ‘I Love You’ in just one language? Buy a huge romantic card and write the words in at least ten different languages. You can easily get this information by googling. Imagine the surprise and joy your love will get on opening the card.

Dedicate a song to your beloved on his/ her favorite music program and have your ‘I Love You’ message on it. This is a great way to let your love and the entire world know how you feel!

Say it the old-fashioned way, write it on romantic stationery and decorate with dozens of red hearts. Then, roll it up, tie with a red satin ribbon and deliver it in person.

Pick up a beautifully shaped bottle with a cork and slip in a romantic letter with the words ‘I Love You’ and gift it. Write a love poem which includes the things you like about your love, attach it to a gift of heart shaped cookies and deliver.

Take different colored Post It strips, write ‘I Love You’ on them and stick them secretly all over your love’s mirror in the night, so he or she can wake up in the morning and see it.

Wear a T-shirt that proclaims in bright bold red letters ‘I Love You’, cover this with a jacket and when you reach your love, remove it, so he or she can read the words.

Buy a cuddly soft toy like a Teddy Bear that says ‘I Love you’ and get it delivered to your love.

Create a special screensaver with his / her image and include the words ‘I Love You’.

Invite your love for dinner to a cozy restaurant and after dinner, have the waiter bring out a surprise heart-shaped cake with the words ‘I Love You’ written on them in icing.
Buy some colored cards and on each card write ‘I Love You’ and a different reason why you love your partner. Put this into a small decorated jar and gift it. Try out these fabulous ideas and you’re sure to win the heart you love!

 
 
November 11th, 2009

HOW GREAT LOVE IS.

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the
feelings
lived:

Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others
including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the
island would sink,
so all repaired their boats and left. Love was the
only one who stayed.Love
wanted to persevere until the last possible moment.
When the
island was almost sinking, Love decided to ask for
help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat.Love
said, “Richness,
can you take me with you? ” Richness answered, ” No,
I can’t.
There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There
is no place here for
you.”

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by
in a beautiful vessel,
“Vanity, please help me!”. ” I can’t help you Love.
You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity
answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked for help, ”
Sadness, let me go with
you.” Oh…Love, I am so sad that I need to be by
myself ! “Said sadness.

Happiness passed by Love too, but she was so happy
that she did not even
hear when Love called her !

Suddenly, there was a voice, ” Come Love, I will
take you.” It was an elder.Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that he even
forgot to ask the elder her
name. When they arrived on dry land,
the elder went her own way.

Love realizing how much he owed the elder asked
Knowledge,another elder,
“Who helped me?”

” It was Time,” Knowledge answered.
” Time? ” asked Love.
” But why did Time help me? ”

Knowledge smiled with deep Wisdom and answered,
“Because only TIME is Capable of understanding how
great LOVE is.”

SO, TAKE TO UNDERSTAND HOW GREAT LOVE IS.


 
Leave A Message for Someone You Love here……

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Suppose U miss someone for example Ur friend who U have not talked from long time, Ur love, some FW member ETC . . .

It can be anyone whom U love and wanted to express Your feelings… or U r having a Relationship and Just wanted to say that How Much U love him/her. . .

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